Comments on: The Power of Forgiveness http://www.pd4free.com/2008/06/30/the-power-of-forgiveness/ Success, One Click at a Time™ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 07:36:51 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Brenda http://www.pd4free.com/2008/06/30/the-power-of-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-209 Brenda Sun, 19 Jul 2009 03:55:03 +0000 http://www.pd4free.com/?p=52#comment-209 Dennis, My heart goes out to you. Not because of what your wife did, although I wouldn't wish that on anyone, but because you have a lot of pain to deal with and you will continue to have that pain until you can let it go and forgive her. By no means does forgiveness mean that you need to trust her, talk to her, or allow her to be a part of your life. You need to stay clear of all negative influences. For some reason, you want to hold onto that hurt and be angry at her. You probably don't feel she deserves forgiveness and maybe you are being too proud to let go of those feelings. Dennis, those feelings you are holding are hurting you not her. However, true forgiveness can not come from a selfish beginning. I feel sorry for her. She must be so miserable to be able to hurt people the way she hurt you. I feel sorry for her to be entangled and ensnared by lies. The Truth will Set your Free, right? She is not free and neither are you. Find it in your heart to remember one wonderful thing about this woman and hang on to that ideal and let the rest go. It will take time and it will not be easy. There is someone who knows a lot more about forgiveness than any of us, talk to Him. Pray for strength and you will get there. Dennis,
My heart goes out to you. Not because of what your wife did, although I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, but because you have a lot of pain to deal with and you will continue to have that pain until you can let it go and forgive her.

By no means does forgiveness mean that you need to trust her, talk to her, or allow her to be a part of your life. You need to stay clear of all negative influences.

For some reason, you want to hold onto that hurt and be angry at her. You probably don’t feel she deserves forgiveness and maybe you are being too proud to let go of those feelings. Dennis, those feelings you are holding are hurting you not her. However, true forgiveness can not come from a selfish beginning. I feel sorry for her. She must be so miserable to be able to hurt people the way she hurt you. I feel sorry for her to be entangled and ensnared by lies. The Truth will Set your Free, right? She is not free and neither are you. Find it in your heart to remember one wonderful thing about this woman and hang on to that ideal and let the rest go. It will take time and it will not be easy. There is someone who knows a lot more about forgiveness than any of us, talk to Him. Pray for strength and you will get there.

]]> By: Dennis http://www.pd4free.com/2008/06/30/the-power-of-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-162 Dennis Tue, 03 Feb 2009 05:08:59 +0000 http://www.pd4free.com/?p=52#comment-162 I read so much about forgiveness and it sound logic and great but I just can not get there with my ex wife Denia who use me to get a USA resident, them cheated with a co worker and lie so many times and the lies are the one I can not forget as she still deny them and I feel if only she would admit how horrible she try for me to believe her lies, making me think that is ok for woman to accept improper gift from other men and lie after lie and she stills deny it and leaves that doubt in people when she knows that I know what a lie.. it just kills me. I can not forgive her and I know I should but is easy to say it than to do it for good. She also steal mechadise at Famous Footwear and the company proctect her so again she has good luck all the time..is that fair.. I read so much about forgiveness and it sound logic and great but I just can not get there with my ex wife Denia who use me to get a USA resident, them cheated with a co worker and lie so many times and the lies are the one I can not forget as she still deny them and I feel if only she would admit how horrible she try for me to believe her lies, making me think that is ok for woman to accept improper gift from other men and lie after lie and she stills deny it and leaves that doubt in people when she knows that I know what a lie.. it just kills me. I can not forgive her and I know I should but is easy to say it than to do it for good. She also steal mechadise at Famous Footwear and the company proctect her so again she has good luck all the time..is that fair..

]]> By: Desiree Freeman http://www.pd4free.com/2008/06/30/the-power-of-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-19 Desiree Freeman Wed, 02 Jul 2008 04:44:26 +0000 http://www.pd4free.com/?p=52#comment-19 Forgiveness - it seems to be one of those things that people always remember as applying to everyone else and not them. I know so many like that and I myself have done it many times before.... but the pain of not forgiving for years and years only injures, only brings pain. I heard it said at a funeral that we had to forgive, we couldn't be anger their time had come. Until that point I had never thought about being angry about the situation at all. It had seemed so out of place because my friend was gone and nothing could change that.... and anger kills everything. My friend was not angry at life.... he had been through fire and back.... so how could I be? The more I have thought about it though the more I realise that in the end as much as I don't feel angry now I have to forgive them. Forever forgive them.... not just a momentary thing. Its hard, as working to truly forgive someone always is... but I will do it. My friend is not in pain anymore.... he is someplace so much better than I could imagine. That story is one of my absolute favorites, what love, what amazing understanding and compassion for someone who had so horribly wronged you. Thank you.... Forgiveness – it seems to be one of those things that people always remember as applying to everyone else and not them. I know so many like that and I myself have done it many times before…. but the pain of not forgiving for years and years only injures, only brings pain. I heard it said at a funeral that we had to forgive, we couldn’t be anger their time had come. Until that point I had never thought about being angry about the situation at all. It had seemed so out of place because my friend was gone and nothing could change that…. and anger kills everything. My friend was not angry at life…. he had been through fire and back…. so how could I be? The more I have thought about it though the more I realise that in the end as much as I don’t feel angry now I have to forgive them. Forever forgive them…. not just a momentary thing. Its hard, as working to truly forgive someone always is… but I will do it. My friend is not in pain anymore…. he is someplace so much better than I could imagine.
That story is one of my absolute favorites, what love, what amazing understanding and compassion for someone who had so horribly wronged you. Thank you….

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